Oral Sex Position

Why try a new sex positions ? If you’ve landed here, you’re probably looking for a new sex position. You’re not alone. In fact, people have been mixing things up since, well, probably since we started hooking up. However, it was an ancient Hindu text called the Kama Sutra that popularized finding innovative ways to get laid. The Kama Sutra was written between 100 and 500 AD and was published in English in 1883, but it really took off when a version started circulating on the Internet. And that, essentially, is a brief history of how you landed here, in search of new ways to enjoy sex with your partner.

Although the Kama Sutra is known for its sex positions, the text in its entirety was actually considered a “treatise on pleasure.” In its time, it was a manual for living a good life, including how to have a happy marriage, express love through sex, please a sexual partner and create pleasure and variety in a sexual relationship.

Pleasure and variety – that’s still what trying new sex positions is all about! Trying a new sex position can mean exploring new erogenous zones. It can amp up effort and excitement. It can switch the usual power dynamic between you and your partner. It can help you see your partner from a different angle (literally!). It can help you learn to move in new ways. It can make sex more intimate. It can push your limits. It can mean more pleasure for you. It can mean more pleasure for your partner. It can even mean more pleasure for both of you at the same time. Oh, and switching things up with new positions can also increase your chance of more and better orgasms.

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Here you will find sex positions of all kinds to fit every lifestyle, ability and mood. Use the filter menus at the top of the page to select from oral sex positions, anal sex positions and sex positions that involve sitting, standing and lying down. You can also filter positions based on your sexual orientation and your sense of adventure. We even have bondage sex positions!How should I go about trying new sexual positions ?

Each of our sex positions comes with instructions, including notes about safety. Some sex positions are physically strenuous or involve moves that could lead to injury. If you’re trying anything ambitious, the key is to start slowly and check in with your partner regularly. And, if a particular sex position isn’t working out for you, you can always move on to something else !OK, so what’s the best sex position ?
Ummm … that depends … on you! Sexual preferences are a very individual thing and bodies are all different. That’s what makes mixing things up so important – and what will help you find the sex positions that’ll really knock your socks off! If you have a certain type of sex position that you prefer – such as rear entry sex, or standing sex – you can use our Sex Position Selector to find other, similar positions. Then again, you could also jump into something totally different and see how it goes!

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If we’re missing your favorite sex position, don’t hesitate to drop us a line and we’ll add it to our list. Enjoy!​ Doggy Oral Sex Position

What does Doggy Oral Sex Position mean?

The Doggy Oral Sex Position is an oral sex position that mimics doggy-style sex. This sex position is simple and accessible for most, and is great for analingus for those who are into it!

Doggy Oral Sex Position
Doggy-style oral puts a new twist on oral play that many people haven't tried. Both partners may want to rest on a soft surface, or place pillows under their knees for support. Be sure to communicate with your partner to find out what's working and what isn't as well. Shoulder Stand Position

What does Shoulder Stand Position mean?

The shoulder stand sex position is a sexy, yet ambitious, oral sex position. In this position, the receiving partner props herself up into a shoulder stand, using her partner's body as leverage. Her partner can then lean in and provide delicious oral pleasure while getting a very sexy eyeful.

Shoulder Stand Position
The shoulder stand sex position requires a firm but padded surface to ensure comfort and protect the back and neck. This is not a sex position for long-term play (it's too hard!) but it's a very fun and sexy add-on. The partner performing the shoulder stand should take care not to twist their neck in this position. People with neck problems should avoid this position. The Ditto Position

What does The Ditto Position mean?

The Ditto position is an oral sex position that ensures pleasure for both partners by incorporating a vibrating anal plug. This sex position is simple, yet sexy, and is augmented if the anal plug can be remotely controlled by the partner receiving oral sex.

The Ditto Position
Giving oral sex can be fun, but it's even more fun for both partners when you up the ante for the giving partner. After all, there's nothing more exciting than watching your partner wriggle with pleasure while trying to pleasure you! This position is simple enough for most people, but the giving partner may prefer the support of a pillow or wedge for comfort. Also always ensure to use plenty of lubricant with anal toys.
  Dog Leg Position

What does Dog Leg Position mean?

The Dog Leg Sex position is an oral sex position that aims to offer an higher intensity mouthful. This sex position is simple and comfortable, but it provides full access to the giving partner, and leaves the receiver wide open to receive nothing but pleasure, whether from his partner's mouth, or his free hands.

Dog Leg Position
The Dog Leg position is an oral sex position that's loaded with flexibility and options, which can make for the best kind of experience when both playmates are in the up-for-anything kind of mood. It's great for foreplay, but also works well for more vigorous forms of oral action, such as deepthroating.
  What does The Munch Position mean?
The munch sex position is a unique oral sex position that puts an interesting twist on the common 69 variation. In this position, the partner on top lies face up, making it easier for the partner on the bottom to orally stimulate the perineum and anal area. Of course, the vagina and clitoris may be within reach as well! This position may also be referred to as the 68 sex position, but the term munch is only used when the partner on top is female.

This position is simple, but it can be difficult if the partner on top is heavier. One way to reduce the pressure is to have the partner on the bottom open up their legs so that the partner on top can put more of their weight between them. Pillows or large cushions can also be placed here to make things more comfortable. The 68 position also leaves both partners' hands free for exploring, making it a very versatile and pleasurable option.
  Tongue Tied Oral Shower Sex Position

What does Tongue Tied Oral Shower Sex Position mean?

The tongue tied sex position is a shower sex position that uses some creative bondage. In this position, the standing partner can simply enjoy the warmth of a nice shower - along with some oral teasing from a willing partner!

Tongue Tied Oral Shower Sex Position
The shower is the perfect place for oral sex because both partners are already wet, naked and squeaky clean. If your shower floor is slippery, be sure to add a non-slip bath mat.

  Lesbian 69 Position

What does Lesbian 69 Position mean?

The lesbian 69 sex position is a simple but super-hot oral sex position. In this position, partners lie down each facing the opposite way. In terms of pleasure and fun, this position is about as equal as it gets!

Lesbian 69 Position
There are no major contraindications for practicing this position, but pillows, props, and position adjustments can make things more comfortable. It's nice to get up in a kneeling position as shown above to allow each partner to have some breathing room. Because faces are far apart here, it can be harder to read your partner's queues, so be sure to check in regularly to make sure everyone's having fun.

  Middle Stump Position

What does Middle Stump Position mean?

The middle stump sex position is a user-friendly way to switch up an oral sex position. The sideways oral penetration allows the receiving partner to get more depth, and will provide the giving partner with a great angle for deep-throating.

Middle Stump Position
The great thing about foreplay is that it need not be limited to the start of a play date. Breaking up sex with a good amount of oral sex will only serve to raise the bar and make for a more stimulating climax. In this position, it may be a good idea to provide something soft for the giving partner to kneel on. The standing partner may also want to lean against a wall or piece of furniture for support.
  Flag Stick Oral Sex Position

What does Flag Stick Oral Sex Position mean?

The flag stick position is an oral sex position that allows the giver to be in complete control. To get into this position, all you need is a comfortable place to recline. The giving partner can also prop themselves up, hands around their partner's thighs, to get better leverage. All the receiving partner needs to do is relax!

Flag Stick Oral Sex Position
This is one indulgent round of foreplay that can offer whichever playmate is in the mood to mouth off the opportunity to scratch that itch and seriously warm each other up. That said, it's also a great way to appreciate the fine art of oral pleasure and go all the way.

--- Up the Middle Position

What does Up the Middle Position mean?

The up the middle sex position is that final stroke of analingus genius before going to town on an increasingly worked up bottom. To get into this position, both partners should be on hands and knees. A wider stance for the receiver will make things that much better. The giving partner can also add hands and sex toys to the mix. That said, this is another number that’s just begging to have playmates swap at half time. We all know that versatility is key to a healthy sex life!

Up the Middle Position
This is a subtly erogenous position, as it makes for suggestive and anticipatory visual stimulation for playmate on the back end, while for the playmate up front has that element of surprise that will come into play. It’s perfect to work in with any role play and fantasies that you might have up your sleeve.

Top tips for this sex position: Swap at half time and repay the favor, A visually stimulating and erogenous position, the best move to lead into what you both know is inevitably coming next.

  Back Tackle Position

What does Back Tackle Position mean?

The back tackle position is made for some serious tongue action. In this position, the giving partner's hands are free to go to town and do whatever it takes, both for himself and for his partner. The naked body in its simplest state is seriously great to just admire at times, so how about getting on both knees and doing just that - while putting your mouth to every last bit of good use!

Back Tackle Position
This sex-101 foreplay position can be every bit as sexy as it looks. Plus, it's dead simple and is perfect for getting in the mood. Beginners and seasoned sex junkies alike will appreciate everything on offer here.

The best bit? There's a wall in pretty much every room of the house.

  The Canadian Bacon Air Position

What does The Canadian Bacon Air Position mean?

The Canadian bacon air position is one tasty fix for both playmates. A leans back on his toes, with knees up and hands planted firmly on the ground to give B a solid prop up, as they leans forward, bends in half and pushes those cheeks back out into their playmate’s face.

This is one sexually charged and erotic take on full body nudity, teamwork, and body shapes that invite for mutual exploration from new angles.

What does The Canadian Bacon Air Position mean?

The Canadian bacon air position is one tasty fix for both playmates. A leans back on his toes, with knees up and hands planted firmly on the ground to give B a solid prop up, as they leans forward, bends in half and pushes those cheeks back out into their playmate’s face.

This is one sexually charged and erotic take on full body nudity, teamwork, and body shapes that invite for mutual exploration from new angles.

The Canadian Bacon Air Position
The bend at the waist by the receiving partner here will create a natural outward and upward angle. This makes for a well spread face-fest for the giving partner. Both partners can also rock into each other.

A clean workspace inside and out is a prerequisite to make sure this warm-up round is a winner every time.

  Reverse Oral Sex Position (RO)

What does Reverse Oral Sex Position (RO) mean?

Reverse oral is a variation of cunnilingus which is oral sex performed on a woman. In reverse oral, a woman's genitals are licked from behind rather than the front as in traditional cunnilingus.

This sex position should not be confused with the sex industry term which refers to a client orally stimulating a sex worker.

Reverse oral is sometimes shortened to the acronym RO. Reverse Oral Sex Position (RO)
Reverse oral may be performed on a woman by a male or female partner. To prepare for reverse oral, a woman lies down on her stomach rather than on her back. Her partner then kneels behind. The woman's legs are placed over her partner's shoulders, putting the partner in the perfect position to lick the vulva and genital region.

Reverse oral is said to provide more stimulation and to stimulate different parts of the genital region, than traditional oral sex. For example, reverse oral makes it easier to get the tongue deep inside a woman for G-spot stimulation.

  The Standing 69 Position

What does The Standing 69 Position mean?

The standing 69 position is a difficult variation of the traditional 69. The best way to get into this position is by starting with the stronger and heavier partner sitting in a chair or on a bed. The lighter partner then puts their head into the lap of the heavier person. The heavier partner can then maneuver the lighter partner into an upside down position. Both heads should be between the thighs of each partner. When in this position, both partners should wrap their arms around the other's waist. From there, the heavier and stronger partner can then stand up completing the standing 69 position.

The Standing 69 Position
Despite its exotic allure, the Standing 69 position is very difficult and can be dangerous if it's not executed properly. Never attempt this position if the standing partner is not strong enough to hold the upside down partner. If the upside down partner falls, it could result in a head or neck injury.

Also, this position should not be maintained for more than a couple minutes. Staying in this position too long can cause blood to rush to the upside down partner's head and result in dizziness or the loss of consciousness.

  Lady Godiva Position

What does Lady Godiva Position mean?

The Lady Godiva sex position is an oral sex position that is designed specifically for cunnilingus. The giving partner lies down on their back, head near a wall or headboard. The receiving partner then straddles her partner's head, vulva hovering over their mouth, and supports herself by placing her hands on a wall or headboard. This position gives the partner on the bottom much easier access to the female partner's clitoris, vulva and vagina if fingers are used for manual stimulation.

The Lady Godiva position is also known as the hovering butterfly.

Lady Godiva Position
The Lady Godiva sex position puts the woman in more control of oral sex than the traditional oral sex position, as she can raise and lower herself over her partner's mouth for lighter or more intense stimulation. Her partner can also stick their tongue out and hold it still, which gives her free reign to grind against it however she likes.

This position enables the female partner to grind her hips for stimulation of her clitoris against the tongue or she is enabled to simply slide her pelvis back and forth, dragging her clitoris across her partner's tongue.

  Deepthroat Position

What does Deepthroat Position mean?

The deepthroat sex position is one of the best positions for deepthroating, or fellatio in which the penis slides into the throat. To get into this position, the giving partner should lie face up on a bed, with their head hanging slightly off the edge. The man can then position himself in front of his partner's head and slide his penis into their mouth and down their throat. In this position, the man usually controls the speed and intensity of the fellatio, as he will usually need to thrust his penis in and out of his partner's mouth and throat. Deep oral penetration is so much easier in the deepthroat sex position because of the way that the mouth and throat are aligned. While in this position, hanging the head off of the edge of the bed creates a straight tube from the mouth down the throat. The penis can then easily slide into the throat.

This position is also known as the throat swab, or hanging back, position.

Deepthroat Position
Injuries are possible while in the deepthroat sex position, so the receiving partner should be cautious when this position is used. Asphyxiation can occur if the nose or nasal passages are blocked and the penis is blocking the esophagus. Physical trauma to the throat and surrounding tissues is also possible while in this position.

To prevent this, this position should never be used when the giving partner is wearing a face mask or has an illness in which the nasal passages are stuffed up. In addition, the man should also refrain from forcefully thrusting his penis into his partner's mouth and throat. Instead, he should use slow and gentle thrusts. The receiving partner can also place their hands on the man's waist, thighs, or hips to help control the thrusts. A hand signal can also be used by the giving partner to let the man know when he needs to stop.

  Head Rest Position

What does Head Rest Position mean?

The head rest sex position is an oral sex position used to facilitate fellatio. It is performed on a male, who should lie down on his side, with his top leg lifted up and moved slightly back so his ankle is slightly behind his bottom leg. His partner can then lie facing him, resting their head on his bottom leg to perform oral sex.

Head Rest Position
Sex Shop While in the head rest sex position, the giving partner is often much more comfortable and at a good angle to give oral sex. The receiving partner, however, can also give a little pleasure himself while in this position by manually stimulating the nipples or genitals. With a little maneuvering, he can also segue into a side-by-side 69 position and orally stimulate his partner.
  Easy Chair Position

What does Easy Chair Position mean?

The easy chair sex position is an oral sex position that makes cunnilingus much easier and more comfortable for both the giver and receiver. To get into this position, the giver lies on their back with knees bent and together. The receiver then lies face up with her head leaning against the giver's knees and her crotch right in front of the giver's face. Her knees should be bent, and her feet should be on either side of the giver's head. The giver is then free to lick, kiss, and tease her clitoris and vulva.

Easy Chair Position
Not only is the easy chair position slightly more comfortable than other oral sex positions, but it can also result in more pleasurable oral sex for the woman. This position enables the giver to easily reach the clitoris and labia as well as the anus. The giver can also use their hands to manually stimulate the woman and really keep her squirming.
  Peepshow Position

What does Peepshow Position mean?

The peep show sex position is another interesting twist on the classic fellatio positions. To get into this position, the receiver should lie down on one side, propped up on one elbow, with the knee of the top leg lifted. The giver lies on one side perpendicular to the receiver, positioning their head between the receiver's thighs. The giver can hold onto the receiver's thighs or waist for support if needed.

The peep show sex position is also known as the intense headrest.

Peepshow Position
Stimulation of the anus and prostate are also quite easy while in the peep show position. The giving partner can alternate between fellatio and analingus, for instance. The anus can also be stimulated manually or with a small vibrator. Men who enjoy having their P-spot stimulated can enjoy more intense orgasms if their partner is able to use a prostate stimulator while in this position. Of course, this position can also be used to give oral sex to a woman.
  The 69 Position

What does The 69 Position mean?

When it comes to oral sex, the 69 position is the mother of all positions. Unlike traditional oral sex, this position allows both partners to give and receive oral sex at the same time. In this position, one partner lies on their back, while the other partner crouches or lies on top, facing the opposite direction.

Variants of the 69 position include the standing 69 and the side-by-side 69.

The 69 Position
Mastering the 69 position can be somewhat tricky for some couples because it can be hard to concentrate on the task at hand while receiving oral sex. To get around this and make sure both partners are doing their fair share, partners can take turns giving and receiving cunnilingus or fellatio. A sex wedge or pillows can also be positioned under the bottom partner's head and neck for added comfort.
  The 68 Position

What does The 68 Position mean?

The 68 sex position is a variation of the 69 position in which only one partner receives oral sex. To get into this position, the giving partner lies on their back. The receiving partner then lays on their back on top of the giving partner, facing upward, with their head between the thighs and their genitals near the mouth of their partner. The giving partner can then perform oral sex on their partner.

  The 68 Position
Along with sucking and licking the genitals of the partner, this position also makes it easy for the giving partner to perform analingus.

To avoid crushing their partner, the person on top of the 68 position should try to support as much of their body weight as they can by resting on their elbows and forearms.